Jabartoday.com-Kuningan- A deeply meaningful and spiritually enriching atmosphere marked a Halal Bihalal gathering attended by the extended family of Mr. Haji Memet and Mrs. Cici, Tuesday (24/3/2026). The event, organized by Mr. Nadziv, Director of PT. Delapan Delapan Logistik, became more than a routine post-Eid reunion; it evolved into a reflective space where faith, family values, and social harmony converged in a powerful way.
The gathering was highlighted by the presence and message of Prof. Dr. Rokhmin Dahuri, MS. a member of Commission IV of the Indonesian House of Representatives and a senior advisor to Ikhwanul Mubalighin Indonesia. Speaking during the ta’aruf moment between Evif and Nafisya, he delivered a heartfelt reflection on the essence of marriage in Islam. He emphasized that marriage is not merely a social contract or cultural tradition, but a sacred covenant that carries profound spiritual responsibility. When grounded in sincere intention for the sake of Allah SWT, marriage becomes a pathway toward completing one’s faith and cultivating a life filled with barakah (blessings).
In his message, he painted a vision of an ideal family—one that is not only harmonious outwardly but also spiritually resilient. He encouraged the prospective couple to build their relationship upon mutual respect, patience, and a shared commitment to religious values. According to him, the success of a marriage lies not in the absence of challenges, but in the ability of both partners to navigate them with faith, wisdom, and compassion. Such a union, he noted, has the potential to become a source of goodness not only for the couple themselves but also for the wider community.
Expanding beyond the theme of marriage, Rokhmin Dahuri also offered a profound reflection on the true meaning of Ramadan. He reminded attendees that the holy month is not an end in itself, but rather a transformative process designed to shape character and deepen spiritual consciousness. The real measure of a successful Ramadan, he explained, is reflected in how its values continue to live within individuals after the month has passed.
He elaborated that taqwa, often translated as God-consciousness, should become the central compass in every aspect of life, influencing decisions, behaviors, and interactions. This consciousness nurtures a sense of accountability not only before society but ultimately before Allah SWT. From this foundation emerges honesty, which he described as the backbone of personal integrity and trust within both family and social structures. Without honesty, he warned, relationships—whether marital or communal—become fragile and susceptible to conflict.
He further emphasized the importance of sharing and generosity, values that are intensively cultivated during Ramadan through acts such as charity and communal iftar. These practices, he noted, should not be confined to a single month but must evolve into a lifelong habit that strengthens empathy and reduces social disparities. In the context of family life, this spirit of giving fosters mutual care and emotional support among its members.
Patience was another value he highlighted as indispensable, particularly in the journey of marriage and life in general. He described patience not as passive endurance but as an active strength that enables individuals to respond wisely to trials and uncertainties. In a family setting, patience becomes the glue that holds relationships together during times of tension and disagreement.
Equally important, he stressed the value of ukhuwah, or brotherhood, which extends beyond blood relations to encompass the wider community. In a diverse society, maintaining unity and mutual respect is crucial, and events like Halal Bihalal serve as a cultural and spiritual mechanism to restore and strengthen these bonds. He described such gatherings as opportunities not only for forgiveness but also for renewing commitments to collective harmony.
At the heart of all these values, he placed the Qur’an as the ultimate guide. He encouraged attendees to move beyond merely reciting the holy text during Ramadan and instead strive to internalize its teachings in everyday life. By doing so, individuals and families can align their actions with divine guidance, ensuring that their decisions are rooted in wisdom and moral clarity.
The significance of the event was further elevated by the presence of respected public and religious figures, including Nuzul Rachdy, Chairman of the Kuningan Regional House of Representatives; Ika Siti Rahmatika; Oyo Yahya; Damanhuri; Riyan Amirudin; and Rohaman. Their attendance not only reflected the importance of the occasion but also symbolized the unity between community leaders, religious scholars, and society at large.
Throughout the event, a strong sense of warmth and togetherness prevailed, embodying the true spirit of Halal Bihalal as a uniquely Indonesian tradition that blends cultural practice with Islamic values. It served as a reminder that the bonds of kinship and community must be continuously nurtured through sincere communication, forgiveness, and shared purpose.
Ultimately, the gathering stood as a powerful testament to the enduring relevance of Ramadan’s teachings in shaping individual character and collective life. It reinforced the idea that faith is not confined to ritual acts but must be translated into real actions that build stronger families, compassionate communities, and a more ethical society. [roez]
